Details Details...

Considering that we've not even sorted the Engagement Party yet, we keep thinking about little details about our Wedding...  Don't get me wrong, we're not rushing about saying "Must do this! Must do that!" but every now and then, Kellie or myself will think of some completely random thing relating to our day...

We've looked at Venues (three times I wrote that as Venus!) and are trying to work out budgets and things.  Tomorrow we're opening a savings account to start throwing money into in a hope we can actually afford it when the time comes.

But the little details... What should Jaysen & Dominic wear?  What sort of rings should we have?  What colour flowers?  What about the cake?

The most recent quandary has been pretty difficult to be honest.  Kellie and I love music, and while we have the same taste in a broad sense, some of the music she likes doesn't do anything for me, and some of mine just makes her roll her eyes... But what about our first dance as a married couple?

"Our Song" as it were has never really been sat in stone.  There are songs we both listen to that make us think of when we started dating, but the one that always crops up isn't really a First Dance kind of song - Rihannas Take A Bow was dedicated to me by Kellie once, though by accident... She was trying to send it to her best friend.  I got the dedication, listened to the words - about a guy being caught cheating and lying and being a complete arsehat - and thought "Hang on a second...?"

So far, the only song that we can both see us dancing to (Well, Kellie dancing, me shuffling along with her trying not to panic attack over everyone watching me "dance") is a song called Heaven...  The version Kellie played for me is not in my head at all, and the version that I find that ISN'T the dance version sounds about right - but I'm not sure...




See, a very nice, pretty song that is quite soppy to boot.  But no doubt we're going to sit and spend hours going through songs, listening to lots of them, Kellie listening to the words to make sure they're nice, me listening to the music because I'm a bloke ;)

Now, like I said, we're not running around panicking over anything - in fact, just the other day we agreed we'd not get stressed over as much as possible, and that she is NOT to turn into a Bridezilla...  No sir, no thanks!

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One Response to “Details Details...”

The HoJo's said...

ahhhh we didn't bother with an engagement party, had a small wedding, nice flowers (what the florist recommended based on budget) sit down meal (what the hotel recommended based on budget) blah blah, none of it matters really so long as you enjoy the rest of your lives together :o) have fun xc